Dili

Blissful selective oblivion

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

That last part

[Mum$y💋 @BigBadReni]

I love watching successful black women on TikTok.

Women in medicine, women in law, women in media, women in engineering.

Just women making crazy bank and enjoying life. It’s one of my biggest drives actually.

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

Mentally clocked out for the day

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

I am already exhausted and I’m just starting 😩

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

He didn’t say maybe. He said…….surely, goodness and mercy shall follow me, all the days of my life.

[B✨ @BibiLondxn_]

Not enough rape cases are reported for me to give a fuck about false accusations. Go to hell.

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

“I don’t understand why women don’t just report it if it really happened.”
When I was 19, I reported mine. I had bruises. Hospital photos. Text messages of him apologizing the next morning. My friends drove me to the station because I could barely stop shaking. I thought evidence would make it simple. I thought truth would be enough.
Months later, I was the one on trial. His lawyer printed my Instagram photos and held them up in court. Asked why I wore crop tops. Asked why I drank that night. Asked why I didn’t scream louder. He replayed my police interview and pointed out every time I hesitated, every time I cried, every time my timeline wasn’t perfectly linear. “If it was traumatic,” he said, “why can’t she remember clearly?”
Sitting there while strangers debated my pain like it was a group project felt like being stripped again. My messages were projected on a screen. My body was described in detail. My character was picked apart like that was the real crime.
He walked out on bail. I walked out with panic attacks.
That’s why some women don’t report. Because even with bruises. Even with screenshots. Even when you do everything “right.” You still have to survive the assault twice, once in private, and once in public, just to maybe be believed.

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

Was just reminded how much of a healing ointment Vaseline Blue Seal is.

[FIFI🌟 @fifss__]

What to do after rape — advice from a Nigerian lawyer.

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

@tmdmrv I bet I will.

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

I’m sat!

[crossfade with t.m. @tmdmrv]

🚨 The first episode drops this Friday on @Zikoko_Mag’s YouTube channel!

Live performances from your favourite African artists. Real stories about their careers and journeys.

Be on a lookout! #ZikokoCentreStage

[Onilu The Hawker 🧞🇵🇹 @gemyoruba]

What music instruments can you play ? 🫵🏾

🎥 westcoast_ ebosua

[CHIDINMA @cruisequeeeen]

I want more women to taste ambition until it ruins their appetite for mediocrity.

[Simi @SympLySimi]

Almost every woman I know personally has been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. You can't think it's okay to shut people up from speaking up about assault because some people lie. If you lie, you should face consequences - but that's not the conversation I'm having. Nor is it one I'm interested in having. How many of your male friends have they lied against? How many of your friends have actually assaulted women as vibes?? Women are terrified to go out. Women in their homes are not safe either. Ask your sisters. Ask your female friends and your girlfriends. Ask your wives. We're not all crazy. STOP RAPING WOMEN!!

[Zikoko says it’s #TheNairaLifeConference season!! @Zikoko_Mag]

https://t.co/cFEwgepGzz

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

Lmaoooo

[Sizwe Banzi @_Jaiden13]

I am beginning to understand women’s obsession with getting a new wig 🤣🤣🤣

[T.U.E @TheUpperEnt]

REAL ONES DIDN’T SLEEP ON THIS PROJECT AND THEY KNOW IT IS A 10/10! 🫵🏾🩷

[Dili @ekeneogbe]

😭😭😭

[Tempesttdenise @tempesttdenise]

Parents make their children have a dance off when they fight. 😂😂

I should have done this 😂😂😂

[Sample Chief @SampleChief]

Is this the best alte sample ever?

[Nae @NaesCloset]

Fashion week really every week but ima put on now too! So obsessed with a masc look 🫦

[Oríadé @michaelinioluwa]

If we want “good people” to seek power and remain in it, then the pathway to power itself has to be structured in a way that does not demand they abandon what makes them “good” in the first place. Many such “good” people do not avoid leadership because they lack ambition or conviction; they avoid it because the process often requires compromise, aggression, or moral flexibility just to get in the room, and even more to stay there.

When systems reward manipulation over integrity, thoughtful people step back because they don’t want to become something else to survive inside that system. So the issue is not simply that good people don’t want power. It’s that the cost of acquiring and holding it often feels like a trade-off against their values.

If we want better leaders, the incentives, norms, and processes around power have to make character sustainable, not punish it.