i saw a quote that said, “if you don’t clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that’s realest shit ever.
I’ll never forget this woman telling me “once you become a mother, you will never sleep 100% ever again. A part of you is always listening out for your children, regardless of their age”
Idc how much you and a person rekindle things, you gone always think back to how they moved on you, knowing you would’ve never did it to them. the whole vibe be thrown off. It’s hard to love a person the same twice. especially if they ain’t appreciate it the 1st time.
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
You know you’ve unlocked another stage of healing when you don’t need to block anymore. Blocks convince us we’re in control. Ngl it’s needed sometimes. But healing matures you. It forces you to interrogate your protection mechanisms. Let them watch & watch you show up whole.