@k1ndbutnotsoft Very true! Especially with such a young queer fan base there’s definitely a different level of emotionality that’s not being understood. It’s all been very not good
I just think lesbianism is a more complex identity than wlw/nwlnw and a lot of the hate towards a wider discussion is misguided, queer identities will never be linear or packed into a neat little box the way some of you want. Many trans men identify as lesbians, who actually-
@k1ndbutnotsoft Definitely don’t think bi and pan lesbians exist!!!! Just want to clarify lol, but also think lesbianism can be experienced differently and in a nonlinear way by many people especially non cis people and hearing cis lesbians be so loud and vocal about trans men has been so :(
feel invalidated by someone else’s experience. The actual vile stuff I’ve read about Jasmin has been so odd to me. Piling on to a queer woc for being open about feeling uncertainty and very normal questions about identity? Queerness isn’t experienced the same by any one person.
cares? Many trans men don’t identify as lesbians either as they don’t think it aligns with their identity which is also perfectly fine. Cis lesbians policing the identities of trans lesbians is so fucking annoying like get a grip. At the end of the day your identity shouldn’t-
not trying to be annoying or come for anyone I swear!!!! but policing language of a more oppressed group especially when it’s clearly a joke is so strange to me???! Like guys let’s focus on the issues