Marriage used to be the entry point into adult life. One of the first steps.
Today marriage has become the culmination of adulthood, the final step after a long run of individual experiences. People are expected to first build careers, live alone, travel, date for years, and only then settle into marriage.
Marriage went from foundation to trophy. It is no longer the stabilizing base that anchored young people early, but an almost luxury milestone once life is already sorted out.
Which is precisely why it’s rarer now.
Alhamdulillah kita telah pun masuk 1 Muharram. Ayuh kita sibukkan diri dengan beramal kerana banyak pahala menanti.
1- Puasa 10 Muharram ( Puasa 'Asyura)
Hadith Nabi ﷺ:
صِيَامُ يَوْمِ عَاشُورَاءَ إِنِّي أَحْتَسِبُ عَلَى اللَّهِ أَنْ يُكَفِّرَ السَّنَةَ الَّتِي قَبْلَهُ
Dah lebih 10 tahun kahwin, bila org minta advice, saya suruh pi kaunseling sajo. Settle.
Sbb setiap perkahwinan ada dynamics tersendiri, what works for u doesn't mean it works for me. Both suami isteri kena rujuk counselor, buka suami sorang atau isteri sorang je.
Dulu cikgu BM ajar pasal integriti. Besarnya impak pecah amanah.
Kalau jalan tak siap. Setiap orang yg ada hak perjalanan untuk dapatkan rezeki dia, tapi tak tercapai sebab pecah amanah.
Bayangkan jalan ada berapa juta orang pakai. Setiap hak yang tak sampai pd tuannya, ada dosa
first time bela kitten yang dari newborn, mula2 risau camne nak litter train, tup tup, bila umur dah sebulan lebih dah pandai sendiri… hasil kurungkan seminggu dengan mak dia dalam sangkar… senang hidup bibik 😆
The safety of my babies is of the utmost importance.
1. Sticker emergency tampal dekat setiap pintu rumah.
2. Emergency card dalam wallet in case aku accident masa rempit pergi/balik keje.