Kilbourne & Tully, P.C.

Connecticut Elder & Disability Law Firm - Elder Law, Estate Planning, Total Care Planning, Will Contest & Probate Litigation, Veteran's Benefits & General Law.

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Revocable trusts aren't the right solution for everyone. Often they're sold as the only way to avoid probate, when the reality is probate is frequently simpler and less costly than people are led to believe. Good estate planning is about the right fit—not the biggest sales pitch.

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Did you know Medicaid (Title 19) protects married couples differently than single applicants? Spousal impoverishment rules can help a healthy spouse keep certain assets and income while their partner receives long-term care. Planning ahead matters. #ElderLawCT #Medicaid

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"Stress can kill you" isn't just a saying. A 6-year study at Ohio State University found a 63% higher mortality rate of Alzheimers caregivers and significantly elevated inflammation linked to chronic stress. Caring for others starts with caring for yourself.

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Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s can overwhelm even the strongest spouse. Medicaid community-spouse planning can help protect assets, secure quality care, and allow the healthy spouse to focus on advocacy—not financial crisis. Plan early for peace of mind. #ElderLawCT

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What is a Power of Attorney (POA)? A POA allows someone you trust to make financial or legal decisions on your behalf if you're unable to do so. There are several types, and choosing the right one matters. Click the link in our bio to read Attorney Tully's article and learn more.

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A client recently showed me a nursing home bill for $19,400. It was just one month of care.
Before signing any nursing home admission agreement, read it carefully. Watch for "Responsible Party" provisions and other terms that could affect your legal or financial rights.

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A nursing home stay doesn’t have to wipe out a lifetime of savings. Even after a loved one enters a nursing home, there may be legal strategies available to protect assets and qualify for Medicaid. Know your options before you spend down. #elderlawct

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A nursing home stay shouldn't automatically mean losing everything you've worked for. Medicaid rules and estate recovery laws are complex, and bad advice can be costly. Before making any decisions, consult an experienced Elder Law Attorney to understand your options. #ElderLawCT

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We have been nominated! Thank you to our clients and colleauges for this honor. Please vote Kilbourne & Tully, P.C. for "Senior Living" law attorney now through June 5th. https://t.co/rLyZmxCtMj

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Many families wrongly believe they must lose everything to pay for nursing home care. Medicare coverage is limited, but Medicaid planning strategies may still help protect assets — even after a loved one enters a nursing home. Don’t rely on misinformation. Plan early. #ElderLawCT

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Caregivers are often the invisible victims of stress. Knowing when home care is no longer safe or sustainable is not failure — it’s wisdom. Planning ahead for dementia and long-term care can ease guilt, stress, and crisis decisions. #CaregiverSupport #DementiaCare #ElderCare

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Dear Attorney Tully: My husband has Alzheimer’s and is in a nursing home. I want the best unbiased advice, but I’m worried about the cost of hiring an Elder Law attorney. What should I do? Learn Atty Tully’s answer by clicking the link in our bio.

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Most older Americans want to age at home — but family caregiving can be emotionally, physically, and financially challenging. Planning ahead and using available home-care resources can help seniors stay.
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People don’t plan for Medicaid because they want to - they do it because long-term care costs (often exceeding $200K/year) leave them with difficult, no-win choices.
Better awareness leads to better planning and more informed conversations about how we support aging with dignity.

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Caregiving is an act of love—but it can also take a toll.
If you’re caring for a senior, don’t forget to care for yourself too. Your health matters just as much.
Learn about burnout, self-care, and support resources by clicking the link in our bio.

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The term “sandwich generation” refers to people who are raising their own children while trying to care for aging parents. While being a member of the sandwich generation isn’t easy, planning in advance can help lighten the load and ensure your parents receive the care they need.

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“Do I really have to spend down nearly all our savings, including my IRA, for my husband to qualify for Medicaid?” One reader shares her fears. See Attorney Tully’s answer in our latest blog post. Click the link in our bio.

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We’re all in a life-or-death reality and, therefore, planning matters. 100% of us will pass someday, and many over 65 will need long-term care. If a loved one has dementia or Alzheimer’s, care needs can be extensive. Protect your family. Plan ahead.

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By combining early diagnosis with thoughtful legal and financial planning, families can navigate the challenges of Alzheimer’s with greater clarity, stability, and peace of mind.
Planning ahead isn’t just practical, it’s an act of care.
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Many seniors still don’t have advance directives like a living will or health care proxy, leaving families to make difficult medical decisions without guidance.

Having these conversations early can spare loved ones confusion and conflict later.