mudita is SUCH an underrated brahmavihara
not over your ex? mudita for them meeting the partner of their dreams. spiritual ego too big? mudita for everyone else awakening but you. friend got a job at a frontier lab while you're stuck in the permanent underclass? mudita
Realize the following: The word personality comes from the Latin persona, which means “mask.” In the public we all wear masks, and this has a positive function. If we displayed exactly who we are and spoke our minds truthfully, we would offend almost everyone and reveal qualities that are best concealed.
Having a persona, playing a role well, actually protects us from people looking too closely at us, with all of the insecurities that would churn up. In fact, the better you play your role, the more power you will accrue, and with power you will have the freedom to express more of your peculiarities.
If you take this far enough, the persona you present will match many of your unique characteristics, but always heightened for effect.
read somewhere that the closest thing to belonging in life is a sibling. same childhood, struggles and upbringing. they'll be proof that your life actually happened long after your parents are gone.
Earn!
So that you will be respected by the family, friends and society.
Earn!
Because relations depends on your earnings, friendship demands maintenace and gifts.
Your real worth is how much worth you make. That's an ultimate and bitter truth one need to listen. 😞😞😞
Was triggered today. V cool to notice. Entered freeze mode QUICK and mind just started spinning content endlessly. When came back to normality there was no content. Insane to notice I used to live inside of that lol
@yvngasura They are a mix of emo rap, lofi and alt hip hop. The lyrics and music just hit deep and transfer you into a different dimension altogether ~ *🌪️* ~
@thakur_realist Reminds me of the quote I read somewhere: "Debt is a transfer from your future self to your current self. Gifts, trades, and theft are all transfers — you can’t tell which one it is without understanding your relationship with your future self"