Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
a man will visit his in-laws and be treated like royalty but a woman will visit her in-laws and be expected to audition for the role of a maid. the game is rigged
Treat your brain like a computer
Update its software:
- Read books
- Listen to podcasts
- Learn new skills
- Gain new experiences
Clean its hard drive:
- Journal
- Meditate
- Gratitude
- Self-talk
Protect its battery:
- 7 hours of sleep
- connect with nature
- sungaze
When dealing with women I've realized that it's just in your best interest to tell the truth. They will respect you way more. Don't nobody wanna give any energy or time to somebody who they feel is always lying about stuff. 9/10 they gone figure it out anyway.