I don't care how you were raised. At some point, you have to take responsibility for who you choose to be. Trauma may explain behavior, but it will never excuse it.
Heal. Unlearn. Do better.
AFTER A BREAK UP :
- Block her.
- Unfollow her.
- Stop checking her stories.
- Stop stalking the people she is with.
She's never coming back.
Even if she did it wouldn't be the same.
Stop letting her live in your head.
I legit couldn’t care less the color of your skin, who you love, what sex you are, or what political side you’re on. If you’re a good person, that’s all that matters.