If your partner is still bringin up old shit, maybe it’s time to sit down & talk to them about it. cause that clearly means its stuck in their head, and its been weighing heavy on their heart. Just as bad as you want them to forget, they want to forget it 10x more.
walahi i respect people who can manage their emotions and still enjoy life through difficult times
Bro if na me,i go first shut down withdraw from everything, nothing go even excite me
Loyalty says more about the person giving it than the person receiving it. Some people stay true because that's who they are, not because they think you're perfect
You have to be careful with the women who give you chance after chance. They’re not weak, they’re just hoping you’ll get it together. They remember every time you lied, every time you switched up, and every time you made them feel like they were not enough. They might forgive, they might try again, but once they’re done there ain’t no coming back from it. When a woman with a good heart decides she has had enough, she means it.
They betrayed you, lied on you, left you out, and tried to ruin your name. Funny thing is… God still didn’t cancel your assignment. Some people weren’t mad at what you did. They were intimidated by what you carried. Carry on! God is proud of YOU!
as a human, I can say this very clearly and sincerely: being cruel enough to keep someone who cares about you awake at night will one day come back to you and you’ll be paying a heavy price... that’s all I'll say.
We’ve become desensitized to what a billion naira is due to constant headlines of embezzlement.
1 billion naira will pay a ₦500k monthly salary to 10 people for over 16 YEARS!!
If you love someone and genuinely want to do life with them, you don’t have to constantly test them or create conflict just to see if they’ll stay.
Everyone has a limit. And once someone reaches theirs, no apology can always undo the damage that’s already been done.
A man who "only has eyes for you" is a form of spiritual protection you didn't know you needed. Because a man with a wandering gaze will drive you to doubt your radiance, and slowly steal your peace and softness. Loyalty is a love language, but it's also a covering.
Not all hurt people hurt people. Some spend their lives making sure no one else feels what they did. They break cycles, build safe spaces, and turn pain into purpose. Hurt people don't just hurt people, they heal people too.
When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.