you can LITERALLY do what you want, dress how you want, act how you want, speak how you want, spend how you want, work how you want & BE however you want because what others think of you is just a perception & youโre a unique being with one life
When you realize that another persons behavior towards you is a reflection of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, you will finally begin to live for yourself
The best Gossip Girl moment is def when Serena tells Dan โyou canโt be worse than the guys I do knowโ and it turns out Dan is in fact worse than the guys she knows