When you realize people's behaviour has more to do with their inner conflicts than it does with you, you'll start to heal & stop resonating with that part of you that identified with their behaviour/words. You'll stop allowing those projections to hurt you or dictate who you are.
I’m just not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms bc you’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..