Whatever age you are right now is the cheapest your body and life will ever be. You gotta start loving your future self by preparing for her needs and desires. It is expensive to be a woman and it is even more expensive to be a poor woman.
I don’t care if you make 20k a year or 20k a month you need to know exactly what is going on with your money at all times. If you’re doing bad you gotta face the music and get yourself a plan. If you’re doing good things will only stay good if YOU stay on top of everything.
Finances are a taboo topic for women but the only TRUE “soft life” you will ever have comes in the form of financial stability. You can get all the massages and do all the shopping but if your cortisol spikes every time rent is due or you have an emergency what is the point ?
Get in the habit of expressing what you feel when you feel it. You can express it thoughtfully or you can release it messily. What's important is that it's not dying inside you, weighing you down. Feed your feelings to the world around you. It's why you chose to be alive.
as a woman it's so important that you learn how to be a Problem. I know what they taught you but fuck what you heard. you will people-please your way into an early grave