as long as i see a person trying then i'll help without thinking. but when a person starts giving up and becoming dead weight. then there's only so much i can carry before i sink too.
i really hate when ppl downplay other ppl's problems just bc they think they're going through something worse. don't compare your own issues to others bc that just shows you're degrading & arrogant.
i love when ppl tell me they're going to change & that my advice was so helpful but then you see them do the same thing they were complaining about. nope not me i'll tell you 3 times max but after that i'll just watch you destroy yourself bc they
obviously don't want help โ
ppl with big hearts tend to forget putting themselves first. if you help everyone else you'll break in the process of trying to fix them. remember self love & being selfless isn't the same thing.