Having compassion and empathy for why someone behaves the way they do based on their experiences, never means you have to tolerate the behavior or hold space for it. You can absolutely have compassion and set a boundary. This is what it means to also have compassion for yourself.
treasure the time you spend with your loved ones!! do what makes you happy!! don’t get caught up on toxic people!! live your life because you only get one shot and you deserve happiness!! that is all