Madam, what you are describing is prostitution with better public relations. The only difference is that you have replaced an hourly rate with a lifestyle requirement and called the arrangement โdatingโ.
And then, with astonishing confidence, you declare that only poor men will be triggered.
No. A man does not have to be unable to afford something to recognise that it has been priced.
If his bank balance determines whether he deserves access to you, why should he not ask what you bring that another woman cannot?
Beauty? There is always someone more beautiful.
Youth? Time is undefeated.
Sex? Desire alone has never sustained a civilisation, much less a marriage.
Status? Fortunes and reputations change.
The things that make a woman difficult to replace are rarely the things money can buy: character, wisdom, loyalty, peace, discernment, the ability to build with a man when the seasons change.
The poor man you ridicule may one day acquire money. But if money is the only language through which you recognise the worth of a man, no amount of money will cure your own poverty.
Akuume.
Everybody is going through something. Even the people you look up to. Even the ones you think have life figured out. Theyโve got their own battles, their own worries, and things they havenโt figured out yet.
You donโt know what someone had to go through to get where they are, and they donโt know what youโre fighting through to get where youโre going.
Life is life. Nobody has it all figured out.
Keep grinding. Your time will come.