You'll regret it if you get married, you'll regret it if you don't get married. You'll regret it if you have kids and you'll regret it if you don't. Kierkegaard said this 200 years ago as follows - whatever you choose, you'll regret it, because the problem isn't in your choices, it's in romanticizing your life. A person always finds an untravelled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with. In life, we must choose our regret.
The Joker once said:
"When we understand that each day isn't one more day, but one less, we start giving more value to what truly matters and that hit hard"
@kazola85 Those who have it are still far better than those who don't, no matter the rain small sun is guaranteed.. Your NEPA wire may not dry for 1 week.
get a haircut every 2 weeks to stay sharp, wait 5 secs before answering the phone to control the rhythm, always arrive 15 mins early, stay away from free lunches, never talk about people who aren't in the room and when anger rises, wait 10 mins before reacting. these habits may look rigid but they're the hidden discipline of the elite.
Life isnโt fair. Some have money but not health. Love but not children. Degrees but no job. Jobs but no peace.
The mistake is thinking someoneโs life is perfect because you only see the part theyโre winning in.
Everyoneโs fighting something you canโt see. Be grateful for yours.
This Olodo Uprising conversation thatโs going on, I donโt want to talk because if I startโฆ
But these two things Iโll leave here for posterity's sake.
1. No nation can become great by platforming mediocrity.
2. Entertainment does not build a nation. It has never happened before and it will never happen.
If na 2 children you fit raise well, no born 3
if na 1 child you fit raise, no born 2
If na your wife alone you fit take care of, no born at all.
If na only yourself you fit cater for, no rush enter marriage.
It may sound like a joke, but this is actually a solid advice. Don't bring children into the world only to send them out as domestic help because of financial hardship. Innocent children shouldn't have to pay the price for circumstances they never chose!!!
Na why people no dey accommodate people be this. E get as you go dey person house, na dem go beg you to stay more days.
Many of you are not organised in your own house, so you are naturally useless in another person's house.
Once you realize that anything can happen; sickness, death, lose your job... Literally, anything in the blink of an eye, you become very humble. Tables turn and that's how crazy life can get.
Always stay humble, and be grateful.