It never goes away. You swap substances when one gets too unhealthy, and if you manage to quit everything you hyperfocus on exercise, sex, work, relationships
I get closer to being a radfem every day but a lot of ya’ll are just mean. Like yeah I know a lot of women are bird brained and it’s infuriating… but degrading an entire group of people and then expecting them to join your cause is…. Not smart or effective
I saw this girl on TikTok talking some crazy shit about sex workers. And like yeah I have my issues w the kink community and adult industry but like. If you’ve never done it you don’t get to speak on it
Also I’m gay so I have never seen other hot girls as competition
And yes the men are just as bad but I usually figure it out faster bc men are dumb and obvious when they hate you
I know this isn’t true bc I never got weird energy from other women when I was dying my hair black but as soon as I go back to red…. Constant sabotage
I had one female manager who bullied me soooo bad and I couldn’t figure out why till her friend accidentally revealed she was jealous of me
Idk why we’re pretending no woman on earth has ever been malicious
Every man on this earth secretly wants to be put in his place by a beautiful, bitchy woman. I don’t care how dominant he appears to be- he knows it’s the natural order of things and aches to pay reparations in the form of Goddess Worship. The men who struggle against this due to their misogyny are simply repressed, and that’s why they’re so unhappy
Even though I have every iteration of polyamory or nonmonogamy muted on every platform I still get the content and every poly relationship coach is just like “it’s not your problem if your partner is spiraling before you go on a date” like at what point do you just acknowledge that you don’t like your partner or care about their feelings
Like I’m honestly the most self centered person I know which is why I don’t get into relationships almost ever. And if I do it’s because I’m reasonably sure that I’ll be satisfied with that person- unless we wanted to date together because I think the hyper individualism is what kills relationships. If you call someone your partner that implies that you’re a team, which means you do things together. If you’re not considering their feelings when making your decisions- that’s just someone you’re fucking
everyone is addicted to infantilizing themselves and trying to appear innocent and completely incapable of malice. i partially blame the recent proliferation of the phrase ‘childlike wonder’.