I have a friend who doesn’t tell anyone anything. You won’t know she’s about to move until she has already moved. You won’t know she’s getting a car until she already has one. Even the problems between her and her boyfriend are none of our business.
I used to think she wasn’t being a good friend because she didn’t share her personal life. But now I understand why she doesn’t. It’s nothing personal, she just keeps her business private. And as I get older, I definitely see why.
a cheating man is the worst. but you know what’s even worse? it’s the man who pretends to be a good man. but in reality he’s a pathological liar (who never admits) lustful‚ manipulator‚ and good at using the victim card. the man who always play the victim mostly has the most to hide.
i tend to not text back when i’m not in an ok mood. this could last from hours to days. i don’t care if you see me on social media ...i don’t want conversation.
Hate on her all you want, but animals are drawn to her, kids gravitate to her, strangers confide in her, people feel safe around her, and there’s a reason for it all, energy never lies.
If you're in a relationship, please protect your partner's peace. Stay away from friends who tolerate bad behavior, who instigate, or who try to convince you to do the wrong things. They won't help you grow, they'll only pull you down and slowly break your relationship. You don't need to follow their mindset or be like them just to fit in. Choose maturity, choose boundaries, and choose the person you committed to.
If your girl still bring up old shit, maybe it's time to sit down & talk to her about it. Yes it may be annoying, but that clearly means it's stuck in her head and it's been weighting heavy heavy on her heart. Just as bad as you want her to forget, she wants to forget it 10X more.