@hayasaka_aryan Weak character. He was “racist” all along but chose to pander and tuck tail to get the people who murdered his son to like him. When he realized they hate him no matter how much he kisses their ass, NOW he wants to call them out. I hate weak Whites.
@tardwife4life No I don’t think so. As a millennial I grew up inundated with “girl boss” era feminism and boomer family members discouraging me from prioritizing family and it almost worked. I went from “no kids 4 me pls” to “I need & want kids asap” very quickly in my late 20s.
@AbbyJohnson I feel the same. I love pregnancy and birth and those early newborn days. Peak human experience. It’s something I’m normally uncomfortable voicing because so many women feel the opposite.
@techhsiren 1st pregnancy I bought into the hype and bought a bunch of maternity clothes (hideous). 2nd pregnancy was a lot of cotton sun dresses, 3rd was just fuck it, I’m wearing whatever I can squeeze on and idc if something’s hanging out lol
@monkjak@canustopcryingb@isa2001m My husband and I walked into the hospital so naive and trusting. Sometimes it takes an awful experience to pull the wool off your eyes unfortunately.
@monkjak@canustopcryingb@isa2001m That’s awesome. I’ve heard many stories from women who had good birth experiences at the hospital. I think it’s about knowahead of time what u do/don’t want and having someone there to advocate for that.
@imcoolchristian I stopped working @ 35 weeks with my 1st. I was nervous going down to one income but ultimately couldn’t wait to never go back to work. My husband told me not to worry, we would figure it out and we have. So worth it.
@monkjak@canustopcryingb@isa2001m That’s what I experienced with my 1st in the hospital. Pitocin almost killed me. I got out of there and swore I’d never go back. My next two babies were born @ home with just my husband present. No complications or tearing. Very peaceful. I wish that for all moms 💛
@Tallowtwins The pain serves a purpose. It’s hard to condense it down but to put it shortly, I think the uncomfortable nature of birth prepares us for motherhood in a lot of ways. It’s the passage from maiden to mother. It shouldn’t be skipped for convenience.
@canustopcryingb@monkjak@isa2001m The majority of complications arise from hospitals and their interventions. Most women, when left alone during labor/birth, don’t tear and are more than fine.
@QueenEsther328@ktstreatz@RachelMcadm Yall donated ovr a mil to a cold blooded murderer simply because he was black. That kind of tribalism has been pretty much MkUltra’d out of Whites for the past few decades. Thatsover now. Now we get tribal.