Am I loving you right?
Am I making you feel safe with me? 🤍
Do you feel heard when you talk to me?
Is there anything I do that hurts you without knowing?
Am I giving you the attention you need?
Do you feel respected in this relationship?
What can I do to love you better?
Am I communicating clearly with you?
Do you feel secure about us? Are valid questions.
Please stop telling people y’all business when y’all going through hardships. You can't imagine the conversations being had with people y’all trust, in rooms y’all never even been in. And not one of them being a helping hand. People really get off seeing you down. Stay quiet, stick through it and trust nobody.
If you're looking for reassurance tonight, this is it. You're going to be okay. Blessings are coming your way. God is so proud of you for staying strong! Everything will be alright!
No weapon formed against you will prosper. That means the plot didn’t work. The lies didn’t stick. The delay didn’t destroy you. The betrayal didn’t end you. What was meant to break you only revealed God’s covering. You are still standing, still breathing, and still becoming. Every attack lost its power the moment God stepped in. You are protected, defended, and backed by heaven. Walk boldly. God already handled it.
i’m not a fan of flowers before until someone gave it to me without having to ask. that’s when i realized i’m not a fan of the idea of asking. i want something to come naturally, without begging. i want someone willingly to give me the things i deserve
Nobody knows what you went through to get to where you are today, how many times you rebuilt yourself, the courage you needed to close that painful chapter. So don't let anyone or anything define you or look down on you. But be open minded, be teachable.
It'll work soon.
no one talks about how draining it is when your mood is constantly switching from "keep going, it'll get better" to "I can't do this anymore, I'm about to give up".