a woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. and no, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
Ur soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in ur relationship
no one talks about how hard it is when your mood is constantly switching between “it’s okay, i don’t care. i’m fine” and “i don’t know how much more i can take”
behind a girl who says “everything happens for a reason” or “it is what it is” is a girl who can’t understand what she did to deserve all the pain and traumas she’s gone through in her life
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
my last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. they're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. love yourself first.
I hope I marry a guy who understands how important little things are, like holding my hand when I'm feeling nervous, getting me flowers when I'm feeling down, and telling me how much he loves me every time we have a disagreement.
Nobody talks about the beauty in detachment. Letting things be what they’re supposed to be so you can experience other things that are meant for your journey in life
Respecting your partner is deeper than just staying faithful. Respecting your partner means to also respect their voice and allow them to be heard. Respect is communication. Respect is avoiding the same mistakes or things you know will make your partner mad/sad. Respecting your partner is thinking before you speak. Respecting your partner is being their number one fan. Respect is sometimes ‘just’ an attempt to understand. Respect is empathy. Respect is effort. Respect is love.🫶🏽🫶🏽
no grown ass woman wants to be in a relationship with a man that don’t plan no dates , no flowers , no quality time , no communication, no reassurance JUST NOTHING AT ALL !!! but they expect you to cook , clean , & fulfill their sexual needs OH FUCKING PLEASE !!!!
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I'm a bad person. I have my ways & I have my days, but I'm solid & my love is real & genuine every step of the way🫶🏽
my husband will be the sweetest, most generous man when it comes to me 🤍 he will be nice & kind & treat me like the princess/queen i am. he won’t play about me & he’ll give me nothing but real love and respect.