i dont even wanna think about how many armys who have been victims of domestic abuse are reading these tweets saying that this isnt that deep and that we have bigger fish to fry, this fish is big enough for me!!
this! men aren’t inherently bad. by implying or flat out saying that they are, you completely remove the blame from the person and frame it in a way that makes it seem unfixable and inevitable which is harmful and thats also how a lot of men get comfortable with being bad people