Eu recomendo muito vc encontrar um parceiro pegajoso (saudável) e amoroso que esteja sempre super animado com você. A vida é muito curta para gastá-la com alguém que age como se demonstrar amor fosse uma tarefa difícil.
But someday, you're going to find someone who will make you feel that you are the best thing that has ever happened to them. They will fight for you. They will assure you and make you feel secure. They will be honest and will show you not the perfect kind of love but a very real kind of love. They will show consistency and you will be well-taken care of. They will value you and won't give up on you. They will hold you and choose you every single day— despite the circumstances. Someday, you're going to be the best thing that will ever happen to someone and you will believe it because finally, you are being loved rightly.
A month after I first met my wife, she flew from Paris to Valencia to visit me. I wasn’t at the airport to pick her up. I’d asked if that was okay and she said yes. I didn’t know it was actually a big deal to her.
2 months later I took the train from Amsterdam to Paris to visit her there for the first time and she commuted an hour by metro just to meet and welcome me at the train station.
I never needed to be told again.
Two years later we got married, moved to Nancy, and she got an internship at Baker & McKenzie Luxembourg. It was cheaper to keep our French apartment and have her commute by train. She returned every evening at 8:11pm. I was at the train station to welcome her every single day.
I kinda agree some men aren’t worth the asking. But men are not mind readers.
Find someone humble enough to hear what you want, and respond. Then show them what love looks like and watch them learn your language.
You have to ask. The right one listens. And then you stop having to.