Breakups are ok. Losing friends is ok. Moving on is ok. Healing is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
Yall think being mean and being racist are the same thing and they’re not. I have yet to see a single law, housing policy, hiring practice pattern, bank lending practice, education access policy, etc put in place by Black ppl to systemically disenfranchise other races.
The way men have convinced themselves of the lie that having a baby with a woman is less of a commitment than marrying them needs to be studied by every ologist under the sun.