i am so angry thinking about the shit i accepted + even tried to justify to myself and others. i have never been so disrespected in my life. i really met the final boss.
Aftercare for doing hard things is really, really important. Not as a reward, but as a genuine act of smoothing out the stretching you just did to meet the challenges of that hard thing. Something intimate and nourishing.
It’s so important.
I think one of the healthiest things I've learned is that you should let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Let them reintroduce their soul. Familiarity shouldn’t be a cage. Love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.
nobody can throw my past in my face. i’ll sit at the table and tell you everything from start to finish. i own my wrongs and my failures. i've made peace with the darkest parts of my life. what's tea for you is my testimony.
2026 off to a grand start. I finished writing a list of her 2025 accomplishments…only to realize that this type of love I give won’t ever be reciprocated. I see why niggas go evil.
I’m so thoughtful sometimes it pains me to even be this way. Everything is meticulously & intentionally curated just for you. Simply because I think about you all the time