@mil_iiii @then0stalgicone "i'm sorry u had to go through this" "it will get better" "i dont really know what to say but just know that im here for you" "im glad you feel confortable around me enough to tell me this" i feel like things like that are enough
@then0stalgicone @KennieJD genuine question: what is a better response instead of telling someone that theyโre strong? sometimes i donโt know exactly what to say after someone tells me something real personal.
you silence me from being vulnerable and youโre not providing me with the support and safety i really need to heal.
i am more than strong. im human.
and being strong should not be measured by your ability to hide your feelings in the face of adversity in front of others.
i already know im strong but im tired
im tired of having to be strong all the time. im tired of being shamed or dismissed whenever i fall victim to my struggles.
i know itโs for reassurance but if all you can do is say โim strongโ when im struggling
4 people just texted me and said โbryce hall is trying to see you and say some rude ass shitโ but like good luck seeing me with ur non-artist pass??? what r u gonna say i sucked ur other toe??! ooooo make a joke about my past scandals! u got me piss boy!