I’m in my extremely single girl era right now. No dates, no roster, no interests. I’m nervous because this is exactly when the universe sends someone to destroy this peace 😭
times l've been betrayed by the people I THOUGHT I could count on & TRUST! My soul is still learning to clap for the pieces of myself that nobody wants to clap for. I am still in the process of figuring things. I am STILL healing silently. I'm more focused than ever & ready to -
I'm STILL healing. Healing from it all. I am healing from the mistakes I made in the past. From.. family issues, friendship issues, from failing myself, from disappointments, and from expectations I couldn't reach because I was too focused on the wrong things. Also healing from -
What’s in your control:
- what you do
- what you say
- what you think
What isn’t:
- what other people do
- what other people say
- what other people think
5 Stoic lessons from Seneca:
1. We suffer more in imagination than in reality
2. Associate only with people who improve you
3. The greatest remedy for anger is delay
4. Value your time more than your possessions
5. Death is not in the distant future. We are dying every day
4/ You don't know how to say "no"
Everything you say yes to means you’re saying no to something else. The more you say no to the things that don’t matter, the more you can say yes to the things that do.
As Marcus Aurelius wrote, “If you seek tranquility, do less."