The reason why its hated is because those who GREW UP with the first 3 refuse to acknowledge, just like woodys arc, that theyre getting old and their childhood is gone, but unlike Woody wont accept the new generation to have new chapters and rather complain about it
it’s weird when people demand a character face “consequences” for their actions in shows bc like. they’re not real. the purpose of making a character isn’t to treat them how you’d treat a real person, it’s to be tools for a narrative you want to tell