the thing is, its more being upset at the systemic inequalities that make women less likely to end up in those positions. it was never a question as to if there would be a man on the crew; we all had to wonder if a woman would be included.
everyone mad about no women on artemis iii somehow missed that like the whole crew are all basically fighter pilots. which is needed to test, you know, DOCKING THE LANDER IN SPACE. like am i the only one that was paying attention.