@TolulopeAyeni Very good idea. It helps one know how serious this is. Some things get swept under the carpet without recognising the importance.
Like someone said " It doesn't matter soon becomes Matters arising"
I usually suggest to dating couples to document their agreements and sign them. Not because agreements donβt change but because it is good to have conversations and have records of your resolutions.
We need to always remember what we agreed to, so that when issues arise, we have something to refer back to.
"And afterward they asked for a king; so God gave them Saul..."
It is a scary thought that God allows men have their way to their own detriment if they insist on it. The sovereign God allows us our choices if we won't yield to His.
May we be sons who are led by the Spirit not by our desires.