@halsey my mom did the nicest thing and got me a ticket for tonight 🥹😭I legit thought I wouldn't be able to afford one and go SO SEE YOU TONIGHT, H! i still can't believe it's happening 😭
@MindBodyBronx it's me: emotional projector with desire motivation (right-facing arrow). wide valleys and nervous touch, 1/3 profile, over all quad-right.
Desire and Guilt motivation are the 2 motivations that need to be involved in a process or resolving problems. It won’t be enough to be a bystander & observing.
Not participating, not taking action, not engaging = misalignment for these two.
They’re here to interact with life, not sit on the sidelines.
@NadineZomorod@MindBodyBronx I have had the same attitude about dating/meeting my person and it never got me anywhere with anyone. I am currently rethinking this and changing my approach.
@MindBodyBronx yes, i spent so many years in my transference but i noticed that by putting my desires onto Pinterest boards and frequently adding to them or looking through them, it would keep me connected to my desires or give me a better idea what they are.
i do wonder if motivation could be a good indicator for what to do or give another person. maybe a fear motivation person would appreciate sth that would help with their research?
i think some of the most detrimental experiences to me as a desire motivation person is that many people in my family were gifting me or doing things for me that THEY thought i NEEDED (without asking me) instead of honouring what i wanted. it invalidated my desires.
to some extent, it also skewed my relationship to gratefulness because while i could appreciate the thought and the effort, sth in me felt wronged. i'm speaking of instances were people went against my wishes thinking they knew better from THEIR experience.
I’ve noticed Valleys environments are naturally great at seeing value in things because their transference is Markets.
They just aren’t meant to lead with a sales pitch or a value point. Their success comes from the conversation, not the conversion.
@MindBodyBronx yes, if I don't take a moment in the morning to think about what I want from the day or don't write it down, my day kind of goes nowhere, energy is scattered and I'm all over the place.
@MindBodyBronx Would you say it's the opposite for wide valleys? I know it's not direct transference but it sounds like "wide broadcasting" would be sth valleys environments could do.
@MindBodyBronx i work with bigger groups too but i do smaller groups more frequently. i've considered 1:1 meetings more pleasurable but working with bigger groups makes me feel more recognised. i'm not really fond of feeling so many different energies at once, so i prefer to keep it small.
stop suppressing your own desires so when you see people living out their own desires you won’t be bitterly offended that they are not holding back like you.
retrograde periods are important for my trial-and-error processes as a 3rd line. i can go back to previous approaches but with new awareness, experience, and renewed sense of desire. i can assess if i was intuitively on a right track but i needed to implement certain changes.