You see this level of audacity and lack of self awareness? Men no get am. Na only woman body e dey
Anybody making excuses for her is mad. If your defense for her is "but but in the abroad...." you're also a mad person
@larissamobebs@texleem_@kaysule1 Nobody is against men asking girls to be their girlfriend. What we are against is simping for girl. You mustn't act like fool to prove you like or love someone. You obviously know all these but just want to show your English proficiency.
Let's call it a conversation.
@larissamobebs@texleem_@kaysule1 This is the issue. It's not hard to know an effeminate man.
This is not a standard to be emulated by men hence why we would always speak against things like this so many men will start behaving like men again.
@larissamobebs@texleem_@kaysule1 Do you have sense at all? You'll do all these just to ask someone to be your girlfriend? Not wife oo....
Why am i even engaging? It's obvious you're simp.
I remember working in McDonald’s and having a manager I was older than and more educated than. Bu virtue of the position she held, I got my breaks and most instructions from her.
The interesting thing about this manager was that she was quite reasonable and led by example (assisting with duties).
I understood that as my manger I had to defer to her on anything that had to do with the job.
I also had other managers on the same job who were older but highly unreasonable and vicious. Yet, I still deferred to those managers.
My point is simple…
No matter who and what your husband is, he is, by virtue of the divine order and societal expectations, your head and you must defer to him on all things.
That’s why before you say yes, objectively ask yourself whether you’re willing and able to submit to this human being on all things. If your answer is no, do not get bother getting married.
Hopefully, you choose a reasonable person to do life with or not!!!
Nine years ago, my husband packed his bags the same week our daughter was diagnosed with autism.
His words were cold and clear:
“I didn’t sign up for this kind of life.”
From that day, it was just me and her. I became her full-time therapist, her cheerleader, her safe place, and the only parent who showed up.
Last month he suddenly reached out. He said he was ready to meet her. She agreed, but only on one condition: I had to be in the room.
Halfway through the meeting, she pulled out a small notebook she had been writing in for years. Inside were pages of quiet observations:
-Every birthday he missed
-Every school event he never attended
-Every hospital visit he was absent from
-Every time she asked, “When is Daddy coming?” and I had no answer
On the last page she had written one simple sentence:
“You left a little girl who needed you.
The woman sitting here today doesn’t owe you the years you threw away.”
He couldn’t finish reading. He just sat there crying.😭
Some absences can never be filled, no matter how many apologies come later.
Do you believe a parent who walked away deserves a second chance if the child is willing to give one?👇
Most ladies don't know that a man always have a better chance of finding a better woman after a breakup than most ladies have of finding a better man.
95% of those men flocking around you just want to collect their own share of the bunda and bounce. Nothing more.
Most ladies don't know that a man always have a better chance of finding a better woman after a breakup than most ladies have of finding a better man.
95% of those men flocking around you just want to collect their own share of the bunda and bounce. Nothing more.
Notice how from the look of things they're all ladies who've probably crossed 30?
Most of them in their 20s had many suitors but wasn't ready or wouldn't settle for the suitors because in their, they're above their (suitors) league.
They thought they're the prize😌
@Hybrid0FDelta@guzu_p Most of them are just delusional. Life has probably given them lots of opportunities, but their foolishness wouldn't let them seize it.
Notice how from the look of things they're all ladies who've probably crossed 30?
Most of them in their 20s had many suitors but wasn't ready or wouldn't settle for the suitors because in their, they're above their (suitors) league.
They thought they're the prize😌
@queenB0fficial@yabaleftonline There is nothing more clownish than for @queenB0fficial to come under Buchi's post to comment nonsense all because she doesn't like Buchi.
Nobody needs anybody's permission to have an opinion about anything you spasmodic piece of trash.