what i find so creepy about reactions to idols dating is that i really don't think its parasocialism but "we spend so much money on you and this is how you repay us" mindset which i find so much more sinister than anything in fan else spaces
Stop involving people into issues that aren’t theirs.
And quit with this 'if A gets it, B should get it too' — the entertainment industry doesn’t hand out opportunities like participation trophies. No one is stealing anyone’s spotlight — you either earn your place or you don’t🙏🏻