One day, I was telling my lovely wife that I am a good husband.
"Sweetie, make I tell you truth. You see all the fuck wey you don fuck me all these years and the yeye things wey you dey do. I just dey look you because you're a darling husband and a good man.
I wicked ooo because I be woman. But I no get the mind to hurt you. I think about our children before thinking about myself or you. And the children are yours.
I'll only keep praying to God for you to change. And I know God is answering my prayers. Because if it was you that I knew when you newly married me, I won't be in this marriage by now. Thank God for growth.
I know that you'll say but we dated for 9 years. Forget those 9 years ooo. I thought I was in love.
But Sweetie, you don show me shege for this life. You dey always talk say women don't love men.
But I love you.
Only say I love the correct man and na why I no dey regret say you marry me.
Sweetie, please don't be angry I said all these. I just felt like saying my mind.
Please sweetie."
I froze for almost 2 minutes.
End.
I saw a video of a racist and xenophobic South African woman, demanding that a white man produces the "foreigners" that he's hiding in his apartments.
Is the man she is talking to not also a foreigner?
Foolish people.
AJD.
As a young married man,
If your wife is not a university graduate, and neither are you.
Please do not send your wife to the university.
Rather, send yourself if you have the money to spend and also cater to your wife and children.
I have said my own.
End.
In this generation, if most Nigerian young men were not thieves, or betting or gambling their lives away, most of them will be virgins at 30.
Dem no go fit see woman pant unless dem spend money.
Very feminine young men.
And most of their girlfriends dey fuck married men.
End.
Have you all seen the level of maturity, experience, non hypocritical, and how blunt and realistic I am when dealing with sensitive emotional issues with grown & mature adults?
You will hardly get such anywhere on social media.
If I block you from this page, na you lose.
End.
Dear lady follower,
I hope you'll see this message.
Your boyfriend already knows that you have a "meet and greet" date with your ex.
You're beginning to disrespect him because he's financially down.
Don't go, or your family members will see your result on WhatsApp.
End.
Have I not been saying this?
If you take away a woman's youth under the guise of marriage, she'll take back her youth in marriage.
I stand with what she said.
End.
As a married man,
No other man should see your wife's cleavage.
It's possible for other men to see it on her wedding day, but that can be excused because you're newly married.
But if after 5 years, your wife still shows her cleavage, you have a problem.
It doesn't matter how big her breasts are.
Your wife still get olosho vibes.
Not just for you alone, but for other men.
I know you'll never agree with this post.
But I don talk my own.
Cry if you want to cry.
End.
Go and study most of the men that are married to wives that sexualise themselves online, or are always online shooting videos.
It's either their wives are the breadwinners, or the men cannot maintain their 'lifestyle or status' without their wives.
Most responsibile, strong & providing husbands' wives are not online sexualising themselves.
If you see a man that his wife does as she likes online, check that marriage very well.
It's either that he's not leading well, that he is younger than his wife, that his wife is richer than he is, or that he is not rich enough to sustain his lifestyle.
End.
Do your deeds sincerely for the Sake of Almighty Allah. He will reward you. No matter how small it is. Repent sincerely for your misdeeds and He will forgive you. That’s how Merciful He is.
You have a date with a lady.
You carry your 30k perfume spray like..
Shuuuhhhh Shuuuhhhh.
To you, you're smelliig fantastic and this babe must fall for you.
Meanwhile, you no know say you dey smell like guinea pig.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
End.
The world is a harsh place. No one notices your tears, your sadness or your pain. Only the Almighty does. But everyone jumps at the slightest mistake you make. Such is the nature of this life
Men stopped wooing women the right way when women started prioritizing money.
I made up my mind to marry my lovely wife the day she gave me about 2k to go see my late father.
I had not spent a dime on her as at then.
I kept that silent promise.
Today, I am happy.
End.
Take heed when the Almighty exposes someone’s intention towards you. He has done it for a reason. Some will act like they care about you but behind your back, it’s a different story. They may even speak ill of you. But don’t worry. The truth will always come out.
I told us sometime ago that there are wicked men, & that their wickedness is nothing compared to that of women.
Let that story just serve as a lesson to some of you greedy women.
If a man knows that you once rejected him because he was broke, please continue to reject him even when he is now rich.
Do not say that he was the one that came back to you to plead that you accept him to be your boyfriend or husband.
Keep moving, tame your greed and count your losses.
The most disadvantageous thing that you can do to yourself as a woman, is to make a man know that you're with him because of his money.
He'll despise you and use that money as a leverage over you, maltreat you, cheat on you anyhow and rub it on your face.
Even if men know that women love money, make him feel and see that you've earned every penny that he gives to you.
End.
Someone made a comment on my perfume post of yesterday.
"If I be your boss and you dey spray this kind perfume, I go dey use one eye dey look you"
The person was right.
Good perfumes are intimidating & commands respect and gives you more silent attention in the room.
And if you have a boss that hardly wears good perfumes, or doesn't wear at all, that boss may silently resent you.
End.
If I were one of you ladies who shared your pictures yesterday and today, the first elimination method I would use to narrow my choice of the men in your DMs would be their approach.
Then I'll quietly audit their pages and read their posts/replies, and check if they're online bambialas.
I'll also not make men above 35 years of age my first 10 choices.
Lastly, I'll not waste my time chatting with a man that is still searching for a job and not living alone.
End.
A single lady above 25 years of age should not be dating for fun or without purpose or a clear direction.
So she must be intentional with her choice of men and avoid time wasters and dream killers.
If she has to stay celibate until she sees a serious man, so be it.
End.