The virus will affect people in one of two ways: they'll become more social because they missed people so much, or they'll become more antisocial because they got used to it.
Don't get me wrong, I love the development of a romance, but I would love to see more stories about what it means to be in love and remain in love.
Basically can we get some stories about healthily ltr couples?
My instinct is to face the virus with panic about my productivity levels and work as hard as I can. But maybe I can use the extra time to learn to connect more intentionally (often online) with the people I care about. Maybe that matters more and is healthier. #enneagram3
3s & 9s make great couples, in my biased opinion. #enneagram3 strives to be someone they're not and grows by accepting who they are. #enneagram9 settles for who they think they are and grows by believing in who they can be. These are flipped dilemmas, so they can help each other
I find my hobbies often intersect. #running and #writing have been two of my main interests lately. With writing, if you write with the intent of writing a bestselling novel, it puts pressure on you to accomplish something that's unpredictable anyway. In the same way, (1/3)
(3/3) mentally, spiritually, and/or emotionally.
Writing becomes almost a waste of time if the purpose is accomplishment. But if you write the story for a specific person, or for your emotional health, or for another more in-the-moment reason, then you'll gain somuch more.
Does anyone else have people telling them they're mistyped often? It's never consistent for me, either, people claim a variety of types for me. I don't know if this is common, or if it's my 3 chameleon coming out
#enneagram3 people: how do you defeat the need to perform in romantic relationships? To try and "win" someone's affection, feeling like they won't give it if you don't, even if that's not true? Or is it just me π
Me, thinking, after having a good time with someone: "I really love this person."
Me and my #enneagramfour self: "My heart will shatter when they die someday."
@INTJ_girl19 Im not sure, maybe everyone does π I kind of imagined that 4s would fixate on that more, being identity-focused, and maybe 3s too, being image-conscious (Im 3w4 so I can have trouble differentiating) But Id be curious if others experience this feeling as well.
What type are you?