Takde sorang pun dalam dunia ni kecuali diri u & tuhan yang tahu EVERY single detail pasal hidup u, what u went through, your reasons etc. So, everyone else tak layak pun nak judge u & u shouldn’t take their opinion/judgment of you seriously, because, they don’t know u.
Not everyone who shares their joy online is trying to prove something. Some do it to celebrate wht they once only dreamed of. Some people post bcuz they’re grateful. Some want to remember. Some share as a testimony to remind themselves or others that love, answered prayers, & healing are STILL real.
As someone who rarely posts about my relationship/marriage life, I don’t assume that public expressions of love are always about seeking approval from others. It reminds me that in a world where love can be hard to find or easy to give up on, love is still possible, & tbh, that gives me hope. But I once had a heated debate with a friend who strongly disagreed.
She said, “Posting your happy relationship in front of single people especially those who often say how hard it is to find real love is like showing off food in front of someone who’s hungry, or talking about owning a house in front of someone who has no home.”
It was a 'jleb' metaphor. I was stunned for a moment, but the more I thought about it, the more I wondered, should joy really be hidden just to avoid triggering someone else’s pain? Is that truly kindness, or just fear of being misunderstood or judged?
MAYBE, public expressions of love aren’t about proving anything. Maybe, they’re a quiet form of shared kindness, a way to spread hope & gently remind others that love, despite everything, still exists. Even in a world that often feels cold.
Penat tu normal, give up tu pilihan. Pilihlah untuk terus jalan, walaupun perlahan.
Kalau rasa nak berhenti, ingat balik kenapa kita start dulu. Kadang semangat tu hilang, tapi tujuan tu masih ada.