If Gaolan is a man then I am straight, if he is a woman then I am gay, if he has pronouns then I am WOKE, if he is an omega then I am his alpha. He's reverse Yujiro, whether his lover is male or female he is ALWAYS the wife. If no one is touching him I am no longer on this Earth
however chill or not chill I seem now, I was way way more strict as a kid. I was in kindergarten avoiding kids who said “libary” because I thought they were incurably stupid