@libriscent They disappear because facing the damage they caused would mean taking accountability. They want the freedom to hurt you without witnessing the consequences. Their silence isn’t always peace; sometimes it’s avoidance of responsibility. 💯
Narcissists do not pick losers. They target the best of the best. The strongest. The smartest. The most capable. The ones who surpass their own level.
They are drawn to people with depth, empathy, intelligence,
No revenge, because their biggest punishment is who they are. Some people ruin good things with their own attitude, choices, and the way they treat others. Life already makes them sit with the consequences of being that kind of person. And honestly, I don't need to get even or make them feel what they made me feel. I'd rather protect my peace and let distance do its job. Not every hurt needs revenge, and not every betrayal needs a reaction. Sometimes the best closure is leaving them where they chose to stand.
some men cheat because they’re at war with themselves insecure, emotionally immature, and constantly craving validation. they chase attention to fill a void that no amount of love from someone else can fix.
No revenge because his life is sad enough. A sad never ending cycle of his own doing. He's ego driven, lustful, manipulative, and a liar. He chases attention and validation. He love bombs, lies, and pretends.
Then when he fails at pretending, looses everything, and moves onto his next victim. He blame shifts to avoid accountability and then goes to other women for sympathy with his lonely nice guy act. The cycle is never ending.
All demonic & abusive narcissists care about is status, sex and money. Most boring people in the world. Thats why they’re always trying to get around people with interesting personalities and gifts, so they can study them and falsely emulate another persons joy, interests and language back to non-discerning people.
Your self-respect must always be stronger than your desire to be chosen. The moment someone disrespects you, recognize it and walk away, no matter how badly you want them to stay. Never let the need to be wanted make you tolerate what hurts you.
Men really be ya downfall sometimes. If your blessings are getting blocked it’s because you’re not listening to what god is trying to tell you about that man.