NO WOMAN just wakes up and decides to be distant, cold, guarded, or TOXIC. that attitude u see? that tone in her voice? that wall she built? it came from somewhere. from betrayal. from being lied to, disrespected, and let down TOO many times. women are naturally loving and soft, but if u keep HURTING someone who only wanted to love u right, don't be surprised when that love becomes PROTECTED
in relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. you lead, she follows. you put in effort, she returns it. you make her feel good, she mirrors it. that's the only way it works.