The world population is going to keep falling and keep getting blamed on all sorts of things (the latest I saw was iPhones), but people won’t admit that one of the biggest causes is that ubiquitous smartphones allowed billions of women to have access to the inner thoughts of men, and even the most naive of women are starting to understand how casually the average man hates women.
For ages feminists tried to tell other women that men wanted to dehumanise them, that men deliberately divided women into women to use for status and domestic labour, and women to use for open dehumanisation and they didn’t want to listen.
Where feminists preaching failed, men just openly revealing their inner thoughts about women on the internet succeeded.
“But women sexualise themselves”… no, men sexualise our existence.
There’s a fetish for the schoolgirl, the teacher, the secretary, the nurse, the nun, the “innocent” girl, the “experienced” woman, the boss, the assistant, the submissive, the dominant, the “barely legal,” the mother, the babysitter, the neighbour, the coworker every version of us gets turned into something sexual.
Covered? There’s a fetish. Modest? There’s a fetish. Uncovered? There’s a fetish. Even discomfort, even vulnerability is sexualised.
The same woman will be sexualised and then shamed for it in the next breath. That contradiction isn’t ours to carry.
Saying women sexualise themselves is just a way to dodge accountability because no matter what we do, you were already going to sexualise us anyway.
Remember when you used to get called a conspiracy theorist if you said the USA’s military budget is to blame for our lack of properly funded social programs?
it’s WOMEN who are instinctively protective, not men. men need laws/rules/authority/coercion/societal norms to help them learn how to protect, but it comes naturally to women. look at mothers with their babies, or mother bears. women are the real protectors, and always have been
The biggest bioessentialist brainwashing in history is the lie that men act with logic and women with emotions and it's a brainwashing that still works in the 21st century and that makes me laugh because we are doomed obviously
This is what MAGA Christians are telling women now! They think that women are their property and that men are in charge and should do whatever a man tells them to! They say women shouldn’t have any rights and are only on this earth to have babies for men!
“Emasculated” is such a WEIRD concept because it basically means “a woman did something better than me and because I look down on women, that makes me feel ashamed and embarrassed, but that’s actually your problem somehow”
This a male problem before it’s a race one, but low iq white supremacist pretend to care abt femicide only when the victim is white and the perpetrators aren’t.
it really is hard to contextualize the hubris it’s taken for americans to develop this insane relationship with medicine. for all of human history you were essentially flipping a coin on wether or not you’d see your kid turn 10
Birth rates are dangerously low in all western countries because when women are told that all they are good for is having children, but that having children doesn’t make them important, they simply opt out.
Women are told that they must reproduce to benefit society, but also that they’re ugly, useless and ready to be discarded by the time they reach 40.
Women are told to take on the overwhelming majority of work in the home, to sacrifice the most to care for their family and let their husbands excel in their careers, but if their husbands don’t treat them well enough to keep them, then they are a burden to society and deserve nothing as a result.
Women see all of these talking points every time they open social media or scroll a timeline. Even women who sought a more traditional dynamic are being turned off and reconsidering their desire when they see how men talk about them.
Men asking for stay at home wives and mothers while also saying that her contribution and sacrifice is so minimal to the point of being worthless is abhorrent.
Women know that having and raising children is going to be hard, that they will be living their lives in servitude, and majority of women are happy to do it, but not for men who tell them that it’s all they’re good for. Not for men who tell them that once they’re done having children they’re ‘used up’, that if the marriage doesn’t work out then everything belongs to him, and that doing all of it still doesn’t make them important.
Despite pleas for women to start having children again, women don’t want to have children with men who don’t value them, so they’re not.
In a world that doesn’t value mothers while telling women that that’s all they’re good for and reiterating that doing so still doesn’t make women important, women won’t become mothers.
If you want to fix the birth rates, you start by treating motherhood with the value and respect is deserves.