The older you get, the more quiet you become noh? I mean, life humbles you so deeply as you age. You realize how much nonsense you've wasted time on. You start to accept things for what they really are. You stop forcing friendships and connections with people. You just grow.
I like calm men. Men who don't shout or break things when they're mad. Men who tell you exactly how they feel. Men who communicate. Men who talk to you in a gentle, low voice, telling you what made them mad or what you did wrong but never blame you or make you feel bad about it.