A lot of people present themselves as lacking compassion online and I can’t imagine what their personal relationships are like. Everyone I know who cares irl, cares online. So maybe people aren’t being cared for and they likely don’t care for others either.
If you’re emotionally reactive and don’t know how to problem solve, just say that. But shaming other women because they’re choosing to model better behaviors. There’s a difference between love and light girlies & pick me bitches.
I’m a love and light girlie, and I’m not fake about it. Try placing “judgment” somewhere else like <childhood trauma>. This is problematic, shameful, & fucks up feminine culture. It’s giving ya not happy where you are so you gotta be critical of another demographic of women.
I want my timeline to come here real quick. Enjoy the #Oscars tonight, but remember:
Black creativity is the sun. Black creativity will be the sun even when the white gaze pretends it is not there. We do not need permission to rise. We give you life.