I just came here to say though that watching the #popstaracademy on @netflix it reminds me so much of the cheetah girls 2 movie and when they try to turn the group into “Global Get Down.”
That shits wiiiiiiiild😂
so once they get too comfortable, they play in your face and bullshit you because they assume you’ll take it. you’ll accept this answer for their actions. it’s “good enough”. it’s an insult to your intelligence is what it is.
when you’re an understanding person, people take advantage of it. they know your first reaction isn’t to pick apart what they say/do or look too into it because up until this point you’ve consistently shown them grace & patience.
Our ceremony coordinator said she’s been doing weddings for 10 years at the venue we were at and I was the first bride to have any type of color in my veil and that made me soooo happy😌#trendsetter
The amount of love I’ve been receiving from the parents and kids I work with is unreal and I feel so appreciated and that’s so important to me right now🥹🖤
This is a hard boundary I’ve had to put between myself and others.
As a severely empathic person, my own emotional issues are enough I am so sorry but I cannot also be weighed down by yours.
Emotional dumping is when someone shares their issues or problems without any awareness of if you’re in a space to listen. It’s one sided so there’s no room for you to express your own feelings. Ask: “are you in a space to listen to me vent?”
This shows emotional consideration.