just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
i don’t get why people are so afraid of adult conversations. you don’t like me? tell me. you don’t wanna talk to me? just say it. you’re mad at me? express your feelings. i’m wrong? let me know. we don’t agree? share your viewpoints. it’s not that difficult.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.