My therapist told me
"We need to talk about the trauma of being the 'good kid' who grew up to be the exhausted adult. You spent your entire childhood chasing gold stars, keeping the peace, and making sure you never caused a single inconvenience for the adults around you. You became hyper-vigilant about reading the room, managing everyone else's moods, and burying your own needs so deep you forgot they existed. Now, you're an adult who physically panics at the thought of disappointing a stranger, handles conflict like a death sentence, and feels guilty just for resting. You weren't actually an 'easy' child-you were just a child who learned very early that your safety depended on your compliance. It is time to stop auditioning for everyone else's approval and start learning who you are when you aren't trying to save the day.
Te recomiendo que compartas tu vida con un hombre empalagoso y cariñoso. La vida es demasiado corta como para estar con alguien que actúa como si dar amor fuera obligación.
A rapist won't be given a forced vasectomy but a rape victim will have to grow, carry & birth a baby against her will. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE. https://t.co/z6kdbX6BUk
To attract better, you have to become better. You can't do the same things and expect change. Transform your mindset. Upgrade your habits. Think positive. Be hopeful and consistent with your evolution. It all starts with you and how you feel about yourself.
Quiero casarme con un hombre que sea sincero y vulnerable conmigo. Un hombre que me diga cuánto me ama y me señale mis errores con un tono dulce, que nunca invalide mis sentimientos, que admita sus errores y que haga todo lo posible para verme feliz.
Cuando elijas un compañero de vida, piensa más allá del romance. Piensa en las conversaciones del desayuno, los momentos tranquilos después de un largo día, la forma en que manejan el estrés, el dinero, los errores y el crecimiento. Mira más allá de la química, mira el carácter.
Solo porque hay personas que no se pueden ajustar a tus estándares no significa que debes ajustarte a los de ellos. Hay millones de personas en el mundo, alguien para ti habrá.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.