Marriage isn’t for every woman. If your ego is too loud to respect a man, do everyone a favor and stay single. Marriage works for women who understand respect, discipline, submission and partnership.
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn’t really about hard work; it’s more about grace, being in the right place at the right time, mercy, luck & favour.
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.
Men are supposed to lead the relationship, not match the energy of women. Women are reciprocators not initiators. The man leads she follows. The man makes the effort and she mirrors it. It’s simple.