May you never again get attached to anybody who isn’t for you. May you find a love that makes you laugh, never lets the flirting phase end, and gives you unquestionable loyalty. Someone who adores your childlike playfulness AND your old soul – a love that never hurts your heart.
Having a Man who's soft & Caring when it comes to YOU is TOP TIER All that nonchalant, no emotion, no effort shit is unattractive. WE are TOO GROWN. Hold my hands, tell me how much you love me, give me random compliments, kiss my face, buy me flowers, randomly hug & reassure me.
I want anniversaries. I want someone to look at me and can't imagine life without me. I want unconditional love. I want healthy communication. I want someone who stays obsessed with me forever. Butterflies even after we're months/years together. I want year(s) with someone.
i read this today: “any relationship you have that could be ruined by having a conversation about your feelings, standards, and or expectations wasn’t really stable enough to begin with beloved!”and i felt that.
healthy relationships are tight as fuck. it’s so cool to be able to be like “hey you’re doing these things that are really bothering me let’s address them and work on it.” and have it not end in arguing and insults. communication is super attractive .