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Two "rubbishes" I've noticed in this World Cup 2026
1) Showing ads during cooling breaks. Why? Just why? ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ
2) Ball possession being "in contest". As how? E.g. Team A 54%, Team B 30%, in contest 16%. Ko ye mi. Why is it in contest? We don't know who had the ball in that period?๐ค
Y'all didn't tell me editing videos is this time-consuming
6-min video, spent almost the whole day already and I'm nowhere done yet ๐ญ
Shey I no go carry am give professional like this??
Women???
Lol ๐
I had the evidence, then I asked her, she swore with the freaking Bible bro, I couldn't believe it.
When I showed her the evidence, she started crying ๐
I begged this lady, pleaded with a broken heart and a shaky voice for her to be honest with me but she refused and even swore by her late fatherโs grave. Then I showed her the evidences and she burst into tears. ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Exactly!
"He won the league with Klopp's team" yen yen yen ๐
Same team that lost out 4 seasons in a row to Man City
Abeg abeg
He had a bad season, like any other coach can, he shld have been giving more time IMO
This sack is well deserved, but I need to address some Liverpool fans.
Football is not a sport where you fluke things, especially at the highest levels.
I see people saying Slot won the league with Kloppโs team. Do you know Klopp himself could have remained and not won the league? Football isnโt entirely 1+1. Another manager could come and meet that Kloppโs team and underperform.
Letโs stop doing this, itโs not nice. You try to take away every credit from Slot because he had a bad season. Football fans have amnesia.
I watched numerous Salah interviews when they were winning under Slot. There was one with Gary Neville where Salah was mentioning the difference between Klopp and Slot.
He talked about the details Slot puts into the game, he talks specifically about how Slot knows when to make changes/substitutions, how he reads the game differently and knows what to do at the right time.
Salah, in another interview, further talked about how Slot would sit him down and tell him places to improve and that helped him a lot. Slot also told him not to track back, several things he said about Slot, because everything was so rosy.
If I search the tweets from many of you also, I would find many of such good things said about the manager. This season, it didnโt work out. In fact, my mutuals know I predicted Liverpool not to finish top 2, and it wasnโt because of Slot. I felt like when too many players join a club, it takes time for them to get their rhythm. I could have been wrong, but I was right this time.
Every club goes through hard times. Real Madrid won the UCL two years and have become useless despite signing arguably the best player in the world, and assembling The Avengers.
Slot had a bad season, the sack is deseved because he was disastrous, but donโt try to discredit him from all angles, thatโs not sportsmanship and thatโs not a fair thing to do. Winning the premier league on your first season isnโt something common, stop it guys.
Wish him well as he goes. Hope the new manager does well too.
they stay all the time lmao๐ they just donโt publicize it like women do. if you cheat on a man and nobody else knows and he cheated first, if you beg the right way 8/10 heโll stay. but IF somebody else told him, or thereโs an audience, heโll leave because his ego canโt stomach what his heart can.
Ladies love to wax lyrical about "communication", but a lot of times their go-to is the 2nd scenario, forgetting that words have meanings ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ
It's 8:30 PM on a Wednesday. Tunde just walked into the house after spending two freaking hours in traffic on Third Mainland Bridge. He is exhausted, his shirt is soaked in sweat, and he just wants to drop his bag and drink some cold water.
Kemi is in the living room, fanning herself because there is no light. She looks at Tunde, then looks at his empty hands. He forgot to buy the petrol for the generator, which he promised he would pick up on his way home.
If Kemi was just angry or frustrated, she would complain. She might say, "Tunde, ah-ah! I reminded you about this fuel this morning. Now we have to sleep in this heat, and the food in the freezer will spoil. I am really upset." That is a normal complaint. It focuses on the mistake and how it affects her.
But contempt is different. Contempt doesn't attack the mistake... it attacks the person.
Instead of complaining, Kemi hisses loudly, rolls her eyes, and looks at him with pure disgust.
"You cannot even remember to buy ordinary fuel. Is it until I write it on your forehead? I don't even know why I expect anything from you. It's like living with another child. You are completely useless when it comes to taking simple responsibility."
Tunde freezes. He knows he messed up. He doesn't feel like a partner who made a mistake... he feels like a foolish schoolboy being scolded by his headmistress. His pride is crushed. Instead of going out to find fuel, he gets defensive, hisses back, and walks into the bedroom, slamming the door.
Contempt doesn't ruin a marriage in one day.
It is a slow leak. Day by day, insult by insult, it drains away all the love, respect, and friendship until there is nothing left.
If your girl says she's going out with friends, you do not call or text to find out if she's back and how it went.
If the hangout was indeed with her friends, it was innocent and she rates you, she will call you to tell you herself about how it went.
Exception here being if you have credible cause to fear for her safety, which is usually if she disappears for more than 48 hours - but that is not the case here.
When you do the calling and texting instead, it signals anxiety; specifically, fear that she may have or is about to cheat on you and with that, you communicate to her that you fear losing her.
You communicate weakness
And once she senses your weakness and reckons you fear losing her, the entire psychological gambit changes.
Because fear strongarms consequence.
Which is to say, if she believes that you fear losing her, she will gamble that she can cheat on you and you will be too blinded by your emotions to find out, and that even if you do find out, there is a pretty decent chance that you will forgive it.
WHY?
Because a man who is afraid of losing his babe is much less likely to enforce boundaries that may result in that loss.
Read that again.
However, when you do not call or text, you give off the opposite impression, which is that;
1. You do not fear losing her
2. Your life will go on with or without her
3. She is not that important
Emphasis here on 'impression' because none of those 3 things have to be true (although, it is best if they are) You just need to create that illusion.
Perception >>>>>>> reality
Now, the interpretive implication of your indifference to her possible infidelity is that you are not attached to her as strongly as she would like to believe and because that interpretation uppends her motivated assumptions of your emotional dependence on her from which she draws her security, uncertainty in that respect positively influences her fidelity.
Okay. let me decompress:
A woman determines her position in her man's life based on how much she thinks he values her, and being a narcissistic creature, is biased to believe she is valued highly by everyone, especially her man.
Which is to say, she is motivated to believe you value her highly, because she needs that assurance to be sure of her emotional security. However, women who are certain of their emotional security are far more likely to stray because the often correct assumption is that their men are too emotionally attached to dump them if they cheat.
This is why almost every time a man crashes out about his cheating woman, we often find out later,that that was not the first time he had caught her cheating.
So in simple terms, she needs you to be strongly emotionally attached to her, so that you can value her - and so that she can cheat on you without consequence.
Go figure.
Your task then is to engineer the dynamic of your relationhsip from the jump so that she cannot consistently hold the assumption that you value her.
How to do that, deserves a book of its own.
Okay, TL;DR version:
It is not the possibility of the relationship ending that influences a woman's fidelity. It is the circumstances under which it ends.
- If she cheats on you, discovers it hurts you intensely and the relationship ends as a result, it will hurt her less
- If she cheats and it barely hurts you, and the relationship ends, it will hurt her substantially more
Again, because her interpretation will be that she was never as important to you as she would like to believe. That despite the sex, attention, emotional investment and whatever other investment she may have made, she never truly occupied an important position in your life.
It is that perceived insignificance that hurt women under these cirecumstance and not necessarily the break up.
A man who fears his woman will cheat on him, communicates to her that if she cheats, he will crash out, lose his mind and suffer. And so even if he ultimately breaks up, his anxiety and head loss evinces that she mattered
Profoundly.
That she occupied a central position in his life. That she was important and unforgettable, despite not deserving it. And she will console herself and maybe even rationalise her betrayal with that psychological victory.
But a man who does not suffer such fears, usually because he has been deliberate about not overinvesting, signals that his life will go on fine with or without her. And the implication of that to female vanity, is that she was not that important to begin with.
That she is forgettable. That she does not matter. That he did not love her. And that if she cheats and the relationship ends, there will be no psychological victory for her to seek refuge in.
And it is this fear, the fear of this perception becoming reality, that represents a much stronger deterrent against her infidelity than your love, anxiety, doings, push gifts, mobile apps, UK sponsorships, calls and texts ever will.
@Presh__lee The problem is, most times, when y'all get a man "higher than you in all ramifications", you want to claim "equality" with him ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ