i'm not involving myself in things beyond this because some of you are just being mean, but this is such an insane thing to say in reference to femmes who want their butch to provide for them. how is this any better than the original poster dehumanizing butches. get a grip
idk, if your type isn't princess femmes, get out the castle, ig? but the idea that rigid power dynamics in a relationship is a bad desire to have is weird and prescriptive. butches that don't wanna do anything can go find the dom femmes that wanna do everything! it's ok!
Not in an nsfw way, I need someone to turn my brain off, I wanna just have someone who treats me as something precious, someone I can just turn my brain off around and they take care of everything, I wanna feel safe and fine