i’m sorry but… an idol going live to address a pattern of behavior from the fandom should never be twisted into them targeting one specific person. he had every right to speak up and confront that behavior. at the end of the day, it was directed at everyone who does it, not one individual. people took a general message and ran with it in the worst way possible.
honestly i just wished people were a bit more kinder to Jay. He’s a guy with boundaries and lets everyone know and yet nobody seems to take him seriously. It’s just fustrating to watch as a fan of him, his feelings matter so much to me but some engenes really don’t seem to care about him😭😭😭😭 a little respect goes a long way, i hope moving foward you guys can let go of that iland picture and truly love and admire the amazing person Jay is. He’s expressed before how uncomfortable that picture makes him. We are not his friends?!!!!! So please just respect his wishes 🥲 please!!!!!!
how do you stan someone and claim you love them just to turn around and disrespect them when they’ve asked multiple times to not use a photo or video of them? it’s just common decency to not do something that someone you love has asked you not to do. Just be respectful to Jay.